Loving our God with all our hearts, minds, souls and strength through all of our days.
Archibald Family
Monday, July 1, 2013
3Gs!
I too have lived dreaming bigger and bigger. I have achieved my dreams, have built stepping stones along the way, but I don't think I have celebrated each of them.
As funny as it sounds, we're still adjusting to what has always been our norm. It has been a little over a month since our son has been removed from our home, and we're still adjusting to things as they were before. I still fumble when asked "how many in your party?" as we dine out. And it isn't only because our son is gone, but now with our oldest being partially gone as well.
There isn't a day that doesn't go by, when I'm not wondering about our son. He's always in our heart, and now I see he always will be.
I now look at our family. We are currently adjusting rooms once again, giving everyone their own space decorated in their own personality. As we started this process, I was allowing the practicality rule me. But truth is, seeing the evidence of a room that has stood empty as it waited for a Liberian boy to come, and then what was once filled with a beautiful and broken 10 year old was more than I could stand to see anymore. It was time to reclaim what was ours...and it took having a broken dream to see what was before me. And as we recover, and as we decorate the rooms to fit their own personalities, it is given me a way to recover from a painful loss and actually celebrate the individuals in the family we have.
Last night we were able to go to the drive-in movies with two of our girls, and it was a moment I was able to embrace. I admit that as we drove there, I thought of our son: how he would have enjoyed this night, and the plans we made months ago of seeing this movie together. But as the four of us huddled and cuddled in the back of our SUV as we watched the movie, I realized "this was good".
And that is when I realized I live in a 3G world. And it is ok! Our 3G are our three girls: Lindsay, who is more out of the house than in these days as she is finding strength in spreading her wings. Katie, our strong leader with a compassionate spirit. And Courtney who is our glue of the family that keeps us all in tact.
I was shown last night as we watched the movie how technology is always looking more into the future...3D movies, more G's in our laptops and cell phones, more computer capabilities and the list goes on. I too lived in the mindset of seeing more. But now I see what I have and find contentment in lives worth celebrating. A world that is enough for me. One full of joy, silliness and heart. One I can relate to more than any other and one that was built just for me.
So as the world shows me their new gizmos, the next bigger and better thing. I refuse to fall into that trap and choose to look into the beautiful faces I see looking back at me and be thankful for the world I have to live. It is the biggest and best thing I know.
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
Let Me Hold You Longer
Last month, Lindsay turned 18 years old! 18 Years old marks adulthood ... yet I still see the baby girl within.
Last month, Lindsay was accepted to two colleges! Two weeks ago, Lindsay had auditions to get into the performing arts school of music in one of the colleges. I will save that story for another time, and for now I will focus on this Mama's heart. The day we have trained and prepared our baby for is closer than ever before ... I don't see my life ever being the same.
This weeks marks the first week of the last quarter. The school year is drawing to an end.
I contemplated how to share the tears I have wept, the joy I have danced and the full heart I hold during this time. I came across a children's book I purchased a few years back, not grasping it then but with a full concept now. Let me read it to you, with my own pictures, and some edits made personally by me.
and leave to me your past,
And I will be left thinking of
a lifetime of your lasts...

The last time when you ran to me, still small enough to hold.
The last time that you said you'd marry
Daddy when you grew old.
Precious, simple moments and
bright flashes from you past-
Would I have held on longer if
I'd known they were your last?
Our last adventure to the park,
your final midday nap,
The last time when you wore your favorite
dress and gave a little tap.
or stop a pillow fight.
The last time that I pray with you
and tuck you in a night.
The last time when we cuddle
with a book, just me and you.
The last time you jump in our bed
and sleep between us two.
The last piano lesson,
the last field trips, especially in 4th grade.
I look ahead and dream of days
that haven't come to pass.
But as I do, I sometimes miss
today's sweet, precious lasts ...
The last time that I help you with
a ride from here to there.
The last time that you spend the night
and your argument of how "things aren't fair".
if you could be home late.
For come some bright fall morning,
you'll be going far away.
College life will beckon
in a brilliant sort of way.
One last hug, one last good-bye,
one quick and hurried kiss.
One last time to understand
just how much you'll be missed.
I'll watch you leave and think how fast our time together passed.
Let me hold on longer, God,
to every precious last.
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Lindsay and Her Music...Whatelse?????
District Honor Band....
Jazz & Choir Concerts...
Monday, January 10, 2011
WE ARE SO PROUD!!!!!
We received some exciting news this weekend. So exciting that our shirts are button less. News that makes all the lessons, time driving to and from, our financial investment all worth while....
Yep...we are very proud!
Way, to go Lindsay. This is just the beginning of much more to come!
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
September, Where did you go?
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
My Girls Amaze Me
The girls have been talking about going to Liberia for quite some time. The more they hear about the history of the country, see pictures and develop their knowing of a brother and sister who live their; a stirring arises in their spirit. Also, when they have heard the countless numbers of stories of how the orphans are treated and grow an understanding of all that is available to; their hearts are overwhelmed. I wish I could record their prayers and their questions as they seek, and their righteous anger that arises when they hear what the Liberian government is doing. I can honestly say God has their attention.
It didn't surprise me when the day came, and they decided that they were going to go and serve. What has surprised me is how they are truly seeking support and how they have been truly thankful for every penny that has come in.
Let me share with you some of the ways we are experiencing His blessings.
I received a call one day, our church was asking for help. They were having a memorial service and the family involved needed a babysitter for the little one. I accepted to help, to serve a family who has lost so much. I never expected to get paid, and even declined. However, God started our funding this way....before we knew we were going.
Courtney's Bible teacher challenged her class. She challenged them to memorize all of Romans 12. The first person who memorized it would received $5.00. Courtney memorized the passage the following day and recited it. But it didn't end there. The girls attended our Bible study a couple weeks after. She recited Romans 12, each member gave her $5.00 as a love offering.
The girls have continued to sell locker shelves, that Duane continues to make.
Katie and Courtney have decided to give their birthday money to the trip, for going to Liberia is the gift they want.
Lindsay has created a logo, which is now at the printers. We are waiting to see it so the girls can start selling t-shirts.
It excites me to see these girls work, but it excites me more to see God stir up the hearts of these girls. We are looking forward to seeing what He is about to do next. And as He continues to reveal Himself to us, we will let all of you know.
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Family Mission Trip to Liberia
Dear Family and Friends,
My sisters and I send our love to each one of you, and are thankful for each one of you in our lives.
We have already finished our first quarter in school. And as always, we are looking forward to the coming months as we celebrate Thanksgiving and Christmas…and of course, having some time off from school. Our school has a mission statement: To be boldly Christian, academically equipped and globally prepared. I have realized how much I have taken for granted; simply by attending a Christian school throughout our lives. I am thankful I have been able to. I see how our school is not only giving me the academics needed to go to college but is also a place where I feel safe to represent Christ freely and give Him all the glory He deserves. As I look back on my education I see how my school has given me a foundation in Christ and an education to prepare me to go out into the world.
For the past 2 yrs and 2 months we have been waiting for my brother, Elijah and my sister, Ruthie to come home. Through this waiting time my sisters and I have prayed and learned about Liberia. Our mommy got to go to Liberia at the beginning of this year and we have been able to see Liberia through her pictures. In this time we have developed a heart for the country that our brother and sister call “home”. We wanted to make this Christmas special. So with that, we decided to go to Liberia and bring Christmas not only to Elijah and Ruth but also the other orphans in the home.
My Mommy and Daddy have work to do for our adoption agency as well. You see, the agency just got finished completing a new orphanage which has classrooms in addition to the bedrooms. They need to help train the nurse how to do some paperwork and also help set up the classrooms. They also need to help the workers develop a routine. My sisters and I would like to do a VBS, as well as bring some Christmas cheer to their lives. We want to meet the Liberian people and experience their culture. Through a lot of prayer we have seen God open a door for us to go.
My sisters and I have sold several locker shelves that my Daddy has made. That has only been a small start to the funds needed to travel. We are hoping to be selling note cards and t-shirts soon. But still in spite of our efforts to raise money, we still need your help. We need to raise 15,000.00 in one month. That seems impossible to me but I am reminded in Phillipians 4: 13 “I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me”. My family and I are expecting to see God do something great!
We are asking for your help. If you are able to help provide towards our mission trip to Liberia we say THANK YOU! Please send your provision to Archibald Family. Our first request for our mission trip is God’s provision and all the details to simply work out. We are in the process of gathering our prayer supporters and be able to send our requests out to our team. Please be part of our team, and email us at archiengirls@msn.com. We will also be posting on our family’s blog.
Thank you for your support! We all look forward to sharing with you everything God is going to be doing in the next few months.
In Christ’s Love,
Lindsay Archibald
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Thankful for a visit that brought healing....
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Tis the Season
Monday, August 31, 2009
Today Is The Day
"This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice an be glad in it."
Psalm 118:24
and
"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances..."
1 Thessalonians 5:18
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
The Time Has Come...
Katie - 7th grade
Courtney - 6th grade - 1st year of middle school!
Family Fall Pictures...
Monday, June 8, 2009
Now that our computer is back (after it crashed), we are back...
ACSI choir competition...
When in 5th grade at RCS, that automatically puts you in the ACSI competition. I have now seen this event for the past two years. I thought these kids performance was outstanding! And so did the judges for they received a superior!
Art Museum Field Trip -
CHASA Band competition...
Lindsay performed with the band at the CHASA band competition. The band isn't only evaluated on performance but also for first time site reading through a music piece they never saw before (the last performance shown). This was the band director's first year, and you could taste the nervousness in the air. The band received all outstanding marks. Can I say that I wasn't one bit surprised???
And as always when May approaches we are greeted with a Spring Concert, which Courtney was part of. This year the focus was on the story of Daniel. We enjoyed it all, and was astounded to see fire in the sanctuary as Meshach, Shadrach & Abednego were in the blazing furnace.
Junior High & High School Choir & Band concert ...
And being that we have a junior higher & high-schooler, we had a separate Spring Concert for them. We sat proud as always as we listened to the talents of all the kids...but of course took that much more pride when we saw our kids go up on stage, hear them play (and as usual find they are hidden behind stands or players). Lindsay not only played in her symphonic band, but enjoyed playing in the jazz band as well this year. Katie has done quite well with her flute this year, I love hearing her play as she practices at home as well with the other instruments. We are having a problem uploading this particular footage of video, so you won't have the privilege of hearing their performance.
Fifth Grade Service Project...
Each year the 5th grade lead the elementary in a service project. They start by having a penny war, normally bringing in about 4,000 dollars...this year they brought in $6,000. The 5th graders decided to split the amount by helping build a kindergarten room in Israel, helping the medical costs of a kindergartner in our school, who has cancer and then this... the video is long (I shortened it the best I could), but you have got to watch it, I couldn't help but weep and I couldn't help but be surprised to see how God can use a bunch of 5th graders. Their voices were heard very loudly that day...and they continue to be heard today. You must watch!!!!
Lindsay's Piano Recital...
And just before finals week, Lindsay fit a piano recital in. She was so focused on all her tests coming up, and weighed a heaviness in her heart from the loss of her friend that this wasn't the best performance she has done. But no matter what...we are still proud!
Talent Show...
It is a custom that the elementary school has a talent show during the last week of school - to show off the talent of their kids. To my surprise, Courtney performed....oh, how I laughed! This was so her...and then the following song was with all the 5th graders singing the song they performed at the Go Life rally.
Soccer Get-Together -
The soccer coach put together a little get-together to recognize the talents her players grew in this season. We had a parent against the players game! Katie was a bit surprised that her dad AND her mom could even kick the ball! We had a great time playing with our daughter and enjoying a part of her world.
The very same night as the soccer
And the celebration isn't complete without an evening out with her friends.
Last Day of School...
We had a great school year, and have many reasons to give God thanks. We are thankful for the quietness of summer and this time of rest. The girls already look forward to be back next year, and all the next year brings.







